It Starts With Hello
By Ashley Underwood, LCSW – September 16, 2020 –
Hi. Hello. Hola. Bonjour. Ciao. Oi.
Each one of these greetings, along with many others, is the gateway for social interaction. Social interaction with others helps create a culture of inclusion and acceptance.
According to Ferris State University, inclusion is involvement and empowerment, where the inherent worth and dignity of all people is recognized.
Why is inclusion important in our schools and communities?
Heartland Community College has created the HEIP (Heartland Equity and Inclusion Project), which identified the following reasons that inclusion is important:
- Inclusion molds the values of the next generation of children.
- Students see a person first and the person’s disability second.
- Students learn to practice empathy and appreciate the value of diversity.
- Inclusion provides opportunities for friendships.
- The development of friendships requires close proximity and a common experience. Keeping children together encourages both objectives.
- Students develop a comfortable way to interact with students with disabilities.
- Children with disabilities attend the same school as their neighborhood friends.
- Inclusion prepares individuals for adult life in the community.
- Today’s classmates are tomorrow’s employers and co-workers.
- Community life includes people of all abilities.
- Inclusion helps create family-like social structures outside of the home.
- Siblings can be educated together at the same school.
- Parents are not stretched between two or more school settings.
- Inclusion cultivates an enriched learning environment.
- Additional resources (therapists, special educators, etc.) in the classroom benefit all children.
- Diversified teaching strategies and the common use of modifications and adaptations ensure everyone can be part of the learning process.
- Children with disabilities learn from typically developing peers who can act as role models, making them more likely to develop appropriate social and communication skills.
What is the opposite of inclusion and why is it important? Social isolation is a feeling or sense of not belonging. It is overwhelming and in many cases debilitating to a person’s functioning. When feeling isolated from others, loneliness and invisibility can consume a person’s thoughts and behaviors, causing a significant increase in self-harm or harm of others.
To decrease the negative impacts of social isolation, the Sandy Hook Promise has created a campaign to increase social interaction and inclusion among students. This campaign began after the Sandy Hook Elementary school shooting in December of 2012. Each fall, schools around the world are asked to participate in the campaign called “Start With Hello” Week. The scheduled date for this year’s “Start With Hello” Week is September 21-25, 2020.
“Start With Hello” Week raises awareness about social isolation and educates students and the community on how to prevent it through various trainings, awareness, activities, public proclamations, media events, student contests and school awards – all provided by the Sandy Hook Promise campaign. You can find the “Start With Hello” Week planning guide along with the registration submission for your school or agency to participate in this event at https://www.sandyhookpromise.org/startwithhelloweek.
Let’s all join together in this movement to show our children that everyone should be valued, to bring awareness to social isolation, and to increase empathy and inclusion all around! Just remember, it can be as simple as starting with “hello.”