By Dawn Tedrow, LCSW – January 14, 2020
Many teens struggle with forgetting daily assignments and losing their homework, or they become overwhelmed thinking about the amount of work that needs to be completed. Being unorganized creates tremendous stress for people.
It is important to teach our students good organizational skills to not only reduce stress at school but to help them continue to be successful throughout life. I have some useful tips for helping your teen become more organized.
First and foremost, get them in the habit of using an agenda book. Most school bookstores sell them to students for a small fee. If they aren’t already in the habit of using an agenda book, I recommend reminding them daily and rewarding them with praise until they have gotten used to carrying it to every class and filling it out.
I also recommend that students write in the book even if they don’t have an assignment due, by simply noting, “No homework.” This will help them get into the habit of using the book during every class. If they forget to use it, simply remind them to start again.
You can easily see if it is being used by sitting down with your teen at a designated time to review what homework needs to be completed each day. Using positive and encouraging statements will help them view this as a pleasant task rather than you “nagging” at them.
Try to find ways to make the agenda book more interesting by purchasing different color ink pens or stickers. I use different colors of sticky notes to put extra notes in my planner. I find most agenda books to be too small for all of my tasks. If your teen runs into this problem, you might consider purchasing a planner with larger spaces for notes.
One of my favorite planners is the Panda Planner, which can be purchased at www.pandaplanner.com. The spaces are larger, allowing for more room to write necessary details about assignments to be completed. They also break down according to the week and help teach the individual how to plan their month, week, and day. I easily plan my week and identify the top priority for each day.
Another simple tool for teens is what I refer to as a “homework folder.” This is such a simple tool to keep homework assignments in a place that is easy to find so they don’t get lost. I get a red folder with 3 clasps and place sheet protectors inside.
There should be a sheet protector for each class (even gym) and then an extra one for documents that are sent home for parents, such as picture day or emergency contact forms to be completed. I use colorful labels to identify each class. The folder is carried to every class. Students are instructed to place homework to be completed inside the appropriately labeled sheet protector.
Once they have completed the assignment, they place it back in the sheet protector until they turn it in to their teacher. Graded assignments do not go back into the homework folder. They are placed in separate folders for the class. This is a quick and easy way to avoid lost homework.
Supplying your teenager with these simple tools will help them to stay organized and reduce school-related stress and anxiety.