Self-Care: Why Helpers Need to Take Care of Themselves Too

By Aaron Ledford, MSW, LCSW – November 5, 2026 –

Self-care is an essential part of working in any helping profession. Whether you are a mental health professional, medical provider, or someone who serves the public, taking care of yourself is just as important as caring for others. Self-care can be defined as intentional, healthy actions and activities that support a person’s mental, physical, and spiritual well-being.

When I was in school to become a social worker, I remember hearing about the importance of self-care almost daily. To be honest, I often tuned out during those lessons. I viewed self-care as something necessary only for people who couldn’t handle the everyday stresses of the job. My youthful arrogance and pride kept me from recognizing its true value, and looking back, I regret that mindset. After nearly a decade of working in the field, I now understand that self-care isn’t optional; it’s a fundamental practice that everyone should learn to prioritize.

So, why is self-care important? Life can be overwhelming, and both adults and young people face countless responsibilities, pressures, and challenges. While their circumstances may look different, the need to manage stress and maintain emotional well-being is universal. Teaching young people healthy self-care habits early in life helps equip them with skills they can carry into adulthood.

As a professional, I don’t want to shield students from every challenge. I want to help them develop the resilience and confidence to navigate life’s ups and downs. Learning how to care for themselves is an important part of that process. Without healthy outlets for managing stress, individuals may also become more vulnerable to their own mental health struggles.

What does self-care look like? The answer is different for everyone. It should reflect your personality, interests, and individual needs. I like to think of self-care as supporting three important parts of ourselves: the body, mind, and spirit.

• Body: Physical self-care can include exercise, getting enough sleep, eating nutritious foods, or simply taking a walk around your neighborhood. You don’t need a gym membership or an elaborate routine. The goal is to make intentional choices that support your physical health.
• Mind: Mental self-care involves activities that challenge, engage, or inspire you. Reading a favorite book, journaling, learning a new skill, or picking up an instrument are all ways to nurture your mind and encourage creativity.
• Spirit: Spiritual self-care can take many forms, including practicing your faith, spending time in nature, meditating, or making time for quiet reflection. These activities can help create a sense of connection, peace, and purpose.

I have found that consistently incorporating these practices into my own life isn’t always easy. The truth is, prioritizing yourself takes effort, discipline, and plenty of trial and error. There will be successes, setbacks, and times when old habits return. That is part of the process. Rather than being hard on yourself, recognize that building healthy habits takes time.

Self-care isn’t about getting everything right or adding another responsibility to an already busy schedule. It’s about recognizing that your well-being matters, too. Whether you are supporting others professionally, raising a family, or simply navigating everyday life, you cannot pour from an empty cup. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Give yourself permission to slow down, discover what works for you, and enjoy the journey.

Aaron Ledford, MSW, LCSW, is a Youth First Mental Health Professional at Joshua Academy in Vanderburgh County. Youth First, Inc., is a nonprofit dedicated to strengthening youth and families. Youth First provides over 100 highly trained mental health professionals (primarily master’s level social workers), prevention programs, parent engagement coordinators, and bilingual support personnel to 138 schools across 15 Indiana counties. Over 56,000 youth and families each year are served by Youth First’s school-based social work and community programs that promote mental health, prevent substance misuse, and maximize student success. To learn more about Youth First, visit youthfirstinc.org or call 812-421-8336.