1. Practice Deep Breathing – During periods of anxiety, the body triggers a stress re- sponse. Breathing becomes shallow and rapid, heart rate increases, and the body be- comes tense. You can combat the stress response by triggering the relaxation response with deep breathing. Breathing becomes deeper and slower and the symptoms of anxie- ty fade away. You can practice deep breathing by breathing in through your nose and out through your mouth like you are blowing out through a straw. You can adjust the counts as needed, but a good place to start is to breathe in for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts, and breathe out for 6 counts, making sure your belly fully expands.

2. Practice Mindfulness Meditation – The goal of mindfulness meditation is simple: to pay attention to the present moment, without judgement. During mindfulness meditation, you will focus on your breathing as a tool to ground yourself in the present moment. It’s normal that your mind will wander. You’ll simply bring yourself back into the moment by refocusing on your breathing. Aim to practice daily for at least 15 minutes. There are lots of good apps for this including Headspace, Calm or even YouTube.

3. Move Your Body – Squeezing in 30 minutes of physical activity a day can make a huge difference in your mood. Exercise triggers the release of chemicals such as serotonin and endorphins in the brain and central nervous system which will help you feel happier, more relaxed, and sleep better too.

4. Prioritize Sleep – Getting enough sleep is one of the most important things humans can do for our physical and mental health. The National Sleep Foundation recommends 7-9 hours for adults. Sticking to a sleep schedule will help you feel better and be better equipped to handle stress.

5. Spend Time with Your Pets – From giving unconditional love to providing companion- ship, pets can be hugely beneficial for our self-care. Dogs especially can help reduce stress and feelings of anxiety and can even lower blood pressure. Try taking your dog for a walk or even just hunker up on the couch and give your pet a good cuddle.

6. Laugh – Laughter has so many benefits. It releases endorphins, relaxes the body, lowers stress hormones, and helps us let go of anger, anxiety, and sadness. To tickle your funny bone try watching a funny movie, TV show, or YouTube video, spend time with someone funny (even if it is via phone or FaceTime), play silly games with your kids or pets, read comics or tell jokes.

7. Limit Your Media Intake – Constant monitoring of news and social media feeds can quickly turn compulsive and counterproductive—fueling anxiety rather than easing it. The limit is different for everyone, so pay attention to how you’re feeling and adjust accordingly. If anxiety is an ongoing issue, consider limiting your media consumption to a specific time frame and time of day (e.g. thirty minutes each evening at 6 pm). Lastly, stick to trustworthy sources such as the CDC, the World Health Organization, and your local public health authorities.

8. Stay Hydrated – Drinking enough water has many health benefits. Our physical health has an impact on our mental health and vice versa. Drinking too much caffeine or sugar can make you feel jittery and increase anxiety. Therefore, replacing some of these caffeinated and sugary drinks with plain water can help you feel better.

9. Get Out In Nature, if possible. Sunshine and fresh air will do you good. Even a walk around your neighborhood can make you feel better. Just be sure to avoid crowds, keep your distance from people you encounter, and obey restrictions.

10. Spirituality – Spirituality and religion often provide a sense of security and those beliefs can be a strong coping mechanism through trying times. If your religious beliefs and affiliations provide you with a sense of peace and purpose, be sure to do things to support that like watch church services online, pray, do Bible study, etc.

Download or draw your own bingo card. In each square, write a coping skill that could be used when times are stressful. Here are some examples of coping skills:

  • Listen to music
  • Talk to someone
  • Write
  • Take 10 deep breaths
  • Watch a movie
  • Use a stressball
  • Clean
  • Read
  • Say positive affirmations
  • Paint or draw
  • Laugh
  • Exercise
  • Dance

Gratitude has been shown to improve our lives in several areas. Showing gratitude opens the door to better relationships, improves physical and mental health, enhances empathy and reduces aggression, helps us sleep, improves self-esteem, and increases mental strength. Gratitude reduces stress and helps us overcome difficult situations. Grati- tude is not always our first response in situations so it helps to practice gratitude daily.

Fill up a jar with written prompts. The prompts can be typed or handwritten on small slips of paper or even on jumbo wooden craft sticks. Fill free to add stickers, color, or anything to make it a bit more fun. Reflect on your own responses, and encourage children to talk about or journal their responses. Have a conversation with your children about their responses. Below is a list of possible prompts.

  • Something beautiful I am grateful for is…
  • A memory I am grateful for is…
  • Something that is funny I am grateful for is…
  • Something money can’t buy I am grateful for is…
  • Something in nature I am grateful for is…
  • Something that is useful I am grateful for is…
  • Something that smells amazing I am grateful for is…
  • Something I did yesterday that I am grateful for is…
  • My favorite place I am grateful for is…
  • Something that I love to eat and I am grateful for is…
  • Something that makes a beautiful sound and I am grateful for is…
  • Something new I am grateful for is…
  • Something unique about me I am grateful for is…
  • The people I am grateful for are…

You can also make a Courage Jar with prompts like “Be brave, be bold, be you” or a Kindness Jar with prompts like “Tell someone that you love them.”